一个男人为什么会喜欢一个女人?

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C-cup性情小组管理员

2013-10-10 15:06

我随便说几点:
1,喜欢对方是发生性交的先决条件。前者其实是服务于本能的,尽管我们也许没有意识到。
2,人类性活动很有意思的是,它受植物神经系统和第二信号系统双重调节。
多数动物的性活动是条件反射,当体内激素变化,产生发情现象,遇到异性,就会立即努力促成交配行动。
但人呢,一方面受刺激后会有性兴奋反应,另一方面大脑对性活动有强烈的抑制作用,使人不立即将性冲动转化为性行为。
怎样解除大脑抑制让性行为发生呢?在漫长的人类性探索过程里,我们渐渐约定俗成了两点原则:“自愿”、“无伤害”。
喜欢对方,并努力让对方喜欢你,就可以很好符合那两点,说服大脑解除抑制。
3.心理学上有个概念,“平衡”。如果某个事物会让心理失衡,就容易造成紧张、痛苦、压抑等情绪,人类会本能的寻求平衡,使自己逃离心理失衡,解除紧张。比如一个能够认知到强奸是不道德是罪行的人,在做下这件事之后,最容易找的理由是:她引诱了我;我不知道她不愿意;我当时喝醉了/太愤怒了/…/(那不是真正的我),这是一种自我防御或自我开脱。
性神秘从未消失过,性束缚也从未远离过。所以你可以理解为,喜欢对方,也是一种为性行为而寻求的平衡。

其实男人不会只喜欢一个女人,他们潜意识里想与越多越好的女人发生性关系,这是生本能。
本题文艺的表达应该是:美没有标准,爱没有原因。我若能知道为何爱上你,大概就能说服自己不爱下去。

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谁说的,一个男人也会喜欢多个女人,也有一个男人喜欢一个男人!

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如果男人都不喜欢女人,那么就不会有你在想这个问题了。(人择原理)

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因为喜欢男人的那些男人们的基因没有合适渠道大量传递下来

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因为在看到某个女人的瞬间,你的大脑释放了若干让你觉得快欣和刺激的化学物质。为什么释放那些物质?因为缺爱。为什么缺爱?因为生殖本能作祟。
以下转链接:
http://www.guokr.com/question/502965/#answer567237

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看《探索看》看到的,是因为男女在一起会获得快感

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楼主的这个问题问的有些歧义,包含好几层意思。
1,;男人为什么会爱上女人?爱上是有一个过程的,不是一见面就可以爱上的。一见钟情不是爱,只是一种好感。(个人觉得)爱是需要由从认识——好感——喜欢——熟悉——爱上。
2.一个男人为什么会爱上一个女人?除去同性恋的可能性外,男人爱上女人 ,那是因为男性对女性天生就存在着幻想,觉得女人特别神秘。这个幻想不止包括性幻想。还有双方在思想上的差异,看待事物的角度等方面,处理事情的心态等等,都会相互吸引。

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男人喜欢女人,女人喜欢男人,那么就更容易把男人喜欢女人女人喜欢男人的基因遗传给下一代

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这个问题,有时候答案可能是双选都对,有时候就只是双选,有时候是无解···

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我想问一个问题是那男人是喜欢上女人才会和她有性生活,还是想要有性生活,所以才说喜欢女人

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一个男人应该会爱不止一个女人才对吧!

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我想,楼主是想问为什么自然设定里一个男人应该喜欢女人。。这种搭配是怎么来的。

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二牛希腊罗马神话小组组长

2013-10-10 20:19

Symposium, by Plato
好像是柏拉图说的:以前的人都是二合一的,一共分三种,后来都被劈成两半了。


1. 两面都是男的→到如今就成了男同性恋

2. 两面都是女的→到如今就成了女同性恋

3. 两面是一男一女,所以男的要找女的,和真正的自己合体




记忆如此,可能有误,详情还请高手指教。

@llanfairpwllgwyngyll


@稻草人语提醒,我找了下原文:
Symposium, by Plato


In the first place, let me treat of the nature of man and what hashappened to it; for the original human nature was not like the present, butdifferent. The sexes were not two as they are now, but originally three innumber; there was man, woman, and the union of the two, having a namecorresponding to this double nature, which had once a real existence, but isnow lost, and the word ‘Androgynous’ is only preserved as a term of reproach.In the second place, the primeval man was round, his back and sides forming acircle; and he had four hands and four feet, one head with two faces, lookingopposite ways, set on a round neck and precisely alike; also four ears, twoprivy members, and the remainder to correspond. He could walk upright as mennow do, backwards or forwards as he pleased, and he could also roll over andover at a great pace, turning on his four hands and four feet, eight in all,like tumblers going over and over with their legs in the air; this was when hewanted to run fast. Now the sexes were three, and such as I have describedthem; because the sun, moon, and earth are three; and the man was originallythe child of the sun, the woman of the earth, and the man-woman of the moon,which is made up of sun and earth, and they were all round and moved round andround like their parents. Terrible was their might and strength, and thethoughts of their hearts were great, and they made an attack upon the gods; ofthem is told the tale of Otys and Ephialtes who, as Homer says, dared to scaleheaven, and would have laid hands upon the gods. Doubt reigned in the celestialcouncils. Should they kill them and annihilate the race with thunderbolts, asthey had done the giants, then there would be an end of the sacrifices andworship which men offered to them; but, on the other hand, the gods could notsuffer their insolence to be unrestrained. At last, after a good deal ofreflection, Zeus discovered a way. He said: ‘Methinks I have a plan which willhumble their pride and improve their manners; men shall continue to exist, butI will cut them in two and then they will be diminished in strength andincreased in numbers; this will have the advantage of making them moreprofitable to us. They shall walk upright on two legs, and if they continueinsolent and will not be quiet, I will split them again and they shall hopabout on a single leg.’ He spoke and cut men in two, like a sorb-apple which ishalved for pickling, or as you might divide an egg with a hair; and as he cutthem one after another, he bade Apollo give the face and the half of the neck aturn in order that the man might contemplate the section of himself: he wouldthus learn a lesson of humility. Apollo was also bidden to heal their woundsand compose their forms. So he gave a turn to the face and pulled the skin fromthe sides all over that which in our language is called the belly, like thepurses which draw in, and he made one mouth at the centre, which he fastened ina knot (the same which is called the navel); he also moulded the breast andtook out most of the wrinkles, much as a shoemaker might smooth leather upon alast; he left a few, however, in the region of the belly and navel, as a memorialof the primeval state. After the division the two parts of man, each desiringhis other half, came together, and throwing their arms about one another,entwined in mutual embraces, longing to grow into one, they were on the pointof dying from hunger and self-neglect, because they did not like to do anythingapart; and when one of the halves died and the other survived, the survivorsought another mate, man or woman as we call them,— being the sections ofentire men or women,— and clung to that. They were being destroyed, when Zeusin pity of them invented a new plan: he turned the parts of generation round tothe front, for this had not been always their position, and they sowed the seedno longer as hitherto like grasshoppers in the ground, but in one another; andafter the transposition the male generated in the female in order that by themutual embraces of man and woman they might breed, and the race might continue;or if man came to man they might be satisfied, and rest, and go their ways tothe business of life: so ancient is the desire of one another which isimplanted in us, reuniting our original nature, making one of two, and healingthe state of man. Each of us when separated, having one side only, like a flatfish, is but the indenture of a man, and he is always looking for his otherhalf. Men who are a section of that double nature which was once calledAndrogynous are lovers of women; adulterers are generally of this breed, andalso adulterous women who lust after men: the women who are a section of thewoman do not care for men, but have female attachments; the female companionsare of this sort.


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scythe7三只脚的猫

2013-10-11 06:55
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个人理解,楼主的意思应该是为何男人会喜欢他所喜欢的那个女人,而不是为什么所有男人都会喜欢女人

所以好多人答非所问了

至于这个问题的答案么

也许每个男人不尽相同,但统计结果我想应该会有以下几个峰值

她漂亮

她可爱

她性感

她家里有钱

她家里有权

她是青梅竹马

她才情万丈举世无双

她在那一晚让我酒后乱性了。。。。。。

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酷叼拽控制科学与工程硕士

2013-10-11 02:25

为了繁殖,就是让自己的基因传递下去。

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也有男人除了会喜欢女人,他还会喜欢男人的、、或者同时喜欢一个女人和一个男人、、、

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